Community guidelines

This is not a dating app

It's the first rule because it's the one that decides whether the app stays useful.

You're here to play tennis, eat dinner, get on a boat. If two people hit it off, that's their business — but using a moment as a way to hit on the crew is the fastest way off the platform. Applying to a moment you have no interest in because you liked someone's face is not allowed. Neither is DMing someone from a crew chat about anything other than the moment.

Be a real person

• One account, your real name, your real age.
• The person in your videos is you, filmed recently.
• No accounts for businesses, pets, group chats or bits.
• Don't apply on behalf of someone else.

If you host

• Post it only if it's real. Real place, real time, seats you can actually fill.
• Say what it costs. Court fee, dinner split, gear rental — before people apply, not after.
• Watch the tapes. Somebody filmed themselves for you. Give them a decision.
• Cancel early if you must. Things happen. Silence is what hurts people.
• Your questions are about the activity. Level, gear, experience. Not appearance, not relationship status.

If you go

• Show up. Four people planned around you.
• Be roughly who you said you were. If you told the host you're a 4.0, be near a 4.0.
• Withdraw if you can't make it — it reopens the seat for someone on the waitlist.
• Pay your share. If the moment had a split, settle it that day.
• Rate honestly. Ratings are how the next person decides.

About the videos

Film yourself, clothed, in a place you're happy for a stranger to see. Say what you want to say — you don't need a script and nobody's judging your camera work.

Do not screen-record, download or repost anyone else's tape. People film honestly here because it stays here.

Not allowed

• Harassment, threats, hate speech, or contact after someone's asked you to stop.
• Nudity or sexual content, in videos or profiles.
• Soliciting — sex work, MLM, recruiting, promoting a business, selling anything.
• Moments involving illegal activity, or minors.
• Impersonation, fake photos, borrowed videos.
• Moving people off-platform before a moment is confirmed. The chat exists for a reason.
• Sharing anyone's contact details, address or videos without their say-so.

Reporting

Every profile, moment and chat has a report control. Reports are read by a person, not a filter.

Depending on what happened we may warn, limit hosting, remove a moment, or close an account permanently. Serious reports get escalated, and where there's a risk to someone's safety we contact law enforcement.

If you're worried about your immediate safety, contact local emergency services first. Then tell us at safety@youdown.app.